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Women gathered in a glass-walled room during a past It's Lifey summer retreat

It's Lifey · Summer Retreat 2027

Summerby the Sea

Come alone. Leave with lifelong friends.

July 9–12, 2027Cape Cod, MassachusettsFour daysA private coastal home

Cape Cod · July 9–12, 2027

Four dayson the Cape.

Some experiences you just have to do again.

Our 2026 Cape Cod summer retreat was, in a word, magical. Laughter, late-night conversations, adventures, and friendships that didn't end when the weekend did.

We're bringing that back July 9–12, 2027. Four days on the Cape. Ocean air, sandy beaches, incredible food, and women who just get it.

You don't have to explain yourself here.

Sunlit living room with a wall of wood-framed windows in the Cape Cod retreat house

A little different this time

What's nextfor me?

You'll stay in a private coastal home, with meals from a private chef, a spa experience, and a day on Martha's Vineyard. The details are handled, so you can put ordinary responsibilities down.

This time, there's a new thread running through the days. Alongside the beach, the spa, and time that is simply for fun, we'll work with a partner — still to be announced — who helps women build a life led by choice, not only by what has happened.

For so many of us, including Jennifer, when a partner dies, a part of our identity goes too. The retreat holds both: being taken care of, and a gentle way to ask what's next.

Grief is part of your story. It doesn't have to be the whole story.

What awaits you

Four days, fully taken care of

A private home, a day on the island, and women who understand without an explanation.

  • A private coastal home

    A beautiful house with room to unwind, gather, and be off the clock. Comfort, intimacy, and nowhere you have to be.

  • A day on Martha's Vineyard

    The island, unhurried. Time to wander, take it in, and come home with a story.

  • A spa experience

    Rest, recharge, and let someone else take care of you. This part is simply for your body.

  • Private chef dining

    Good food, and the conversations that happen when the table is set and the evening is open.

  • What's next

    Gentle structure, alongside the fun, for the question so many widows carry: who am I now, and where do I want to go?

  • Women who get it

    Shared laughter, honest talk, a few tears, and friendships that last long after you go home.

Come for the ocean. Stay for the connection.

Cape Cod

The house, the days, the women

More than a retreat

You don't have toarrive figured out.

You don't need to be at a particular stage of grief. You don't need to have it all figured out. And you don't need to know anyone before you arrive.

Our retreats aren't about fixing grief or moving on. They're about discovering that life can still hold joy, adventure, laughter, and meaningful connection.

We're bringing back what made 2026 so special. The true magic still can't be planned. It shows up in the unexpected friendships, the belly laughs, the tears, and the feeling of being completely understood.

Come alone. You won't be alone for long. Space is intentionally limited, so the group stays intimate.

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July 9–12, 2027 · Cape Cod, Massachusetts. Intimate by design.

Questions? jennifer@itslifey.com

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Come alone.Leave with lifelong friends.

July 9–12, 2027, on Cape Cod. Four days of rest, ocean, and women who understand.