The heart of it
No one hands us a map
When someone you love dies, there are so many things no one prepares you for. The paperwork. The passwords. The “where is everything?” moments. The decisions you suddenly have to make while your heart is still trying to catch up to your reality.
And somewhere in the middle of grief, many widows quietly begin thinking something else too:
If something happened to me tomorrow, would the people I love know what matters most? Would they know where important things are? Would they know my wishes? Would they know the stories, traditions, and little things I never want forgotten?
This workshop was created to gently help widows navigate those conversations and begin organizing the things that matter most—emotionally and practically—without fear, pressure, or overwhelm.
Led by the founders of First40 and hosted by widow, speaker, and founder of It's Lifey, Jen Newberg, this experience combines compassionate conversation, practical guidance, and meaningful reflection in a supportive community setting.
Why this matters
Why this matters for widows
After loss, even the smallest decisions can feel exhausting. You are grieving while also trying to manage paperwork, finances, memories, logistics, relationships, and an entirely new version of life you never asked for.
This workshop offers a supportive space to
Feel more organized and prepared without fear or pressure
Begin documenting important information, wishes, and practical details
Preserve memories, traditions, values, and stories for loved ones
Learn simple tools that make difficult conversations feel easier
Reflect on what truly matters most after loss
Connect with other widows who understand how deeply loss changes everything
This is not about preparing for the worst.
It's about creating more clarity, connection, peace of mind, and support for yourself and the people you love.
What you'll explore
What is a Closure Map?
A Closure Map is a simple way to organize important information, reflect on memories, and document what matters most—from practical details to stories, traditions, and wishes for the people you love.
It's not about fear.
It's about clarity, connection, and peace of mind.
Facilitated by Jennifer
This evening is about honest conversation—no jargon, no pressure. Whether you are newly widowed or years into this journey, you deserve a space that feels steady, kind, and practical.
Jennifer Newberg — Founder, It's Lifey · widow
Your guides
Meet the facilitators
First40
Mikalee Byerman
Award-winning author · strategist · keynote speaker
First40
Heidi Struve Currey
Bestselling author · leadership coach · former financial executive
Special guest
Jennifer Newberg
Founder, It's Lifey · widow · community builder
Reserve your spot
Pricing & packages
Whether you are newly widowed or years into this journey, this workshop offers thoughtful guidance around the conversations and planning no one prepares us for.
When & where
Wednesday, June 18
4:00 p.m. PDT / 7:00 p.m. EDT
Virtual · 45 minutes + live Q&A
Worksheets, reflection prompts, and facilitator stories—with First40 founders, facilitated by Jennifer.
Individual
$49
One attendee. First 10 registrants receive a complimentary Closure Map Workbook ($29.40 value).
Package of 5 attendees
$98
Buy 2, get 3 free
Perfect for widow groups, friends, family members, or support circles who want to attend together.
Package of 10 attendees
$196
Buy 4, get 6 free
A meaningful option for larger communities, organizations, or groups of widows who want shared support and conversation.
Registration
Register for the workshop
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June 18 · Virtual · First40 × It's Lifey
The conversations & planning no one prepares us for
One gentle workshop for widows—practical tools, meaningful reflection, and space for real questions.
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